To be honest, there's more going on than a lot of women seem to realize (or acknowledge). I've come to the aid of women who were attacked and/or abused, and quite often the response has been "mind your own business" from the woman herself. Nowadays, I don't even interact with women in public unless responding to an inquiry from someone addressing me. I don't date, I don't flirt, and I don't do anything that can be construed as making a first move. I honestly believe there are a lot of men like me who basically just keep to themselves, free of drama and negative interactions.